Is This Happening for You?
Deep breath in, deep breath out.
If you follow any astrologers, you’re probably already aware that March is a big month. Venus is entering Aries, Mercury is in the microwave (aka Mercury Retrograde), and we’ve got an eclipse...just to name a few. 😮
You might have experienced some discomfort, some sleepless nights, and some general “what the eff-ness" because of it.
But before we roll our eyes and throw this month the middle finger, let’s zoom out. When we take a step back, it helps us approach these moments with compassion and a greater understanding of what’s here to shake us up.
One of my favorite astrologers, Chani Nicholas, posed this question: “What was happening for you in 2017 around this time that rocked your boat?” Venus is revisiting the themes of 8 years ago, inviting us to reflect on how our relationships and values have evolved since then.
This got me thinking about where I was in 2017... 🤔
February of 2017 was a lot for me: panic, death in the family, wedding planning, working full-time, rehearsing a show... I took on way more than I could handle while processing a fresh loss. Instead of saying “no,” I said “yes” to everything. “Sure, I’ll do that” came out of my mouth way more than I had the capacity for.
After my first trip to the ER, convinced something was seriously wrong, I learned what a panic attack was. I remember sitting there, absolutely wrecked, and thinking, “The only solution here is to say no.” I had to immediately outsource and cancel to regain some control.
So, looking at where the astrology is now, I hear the message loud and clear: “Check yourself before you wreck yourself.” I'm dusting off my “no” hat and clearing out what I can, which is already leading to some difficult but necessary conversations. 👀
Instead of feeling crushed by everything that’s coming at us this month, there’s a huge amount of power in this energy. This is meant to elevate us and help us get super clear on what truly matters.
Our relationships, values, and self-expression are all being challenged right now, pushing us to re-evaluate them. ⚠️
I set a goal for myself this month regarding where I want to go career-wise, and I kept pondering, “What’s the first step I need to take to get there?”
To my surprise, it wasn’t directly related to my goal at all. The answer lay in what I needed to purge before moving forward.
Here are two questions for you to reflect on:
💡 Where can you set clearer boundaries with a firm “no” this month?
💡 What’s one way you can step into more courage or self-assertion right now?
As we approach the start of spring, it’s the ideal time to clear out what’s no longer serving us and welcome in fresh energy. If you're looking for clarity and guidance through this month’s energy, I’d love to help. My tarot sessions provide personalized insights and a safe space to explore where you are and what needs to shift.
I’m here to support you on your journey. 🌸